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Dexter Mai

Santa Clara, California

Dexter Mai

MSW, University of California, Berkeley
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my integrated approach to trauma therapy, I seamlessly weave Brainspotting and evidence-based talk therapy to provide comprehensive support for clients. Drawing on the power of Brainspotting, I guide clients in identifying and processing trauma through the activation of specific “brainspots,” while leveraging the insights and techniques of talk therapy to foster deeper introspection and cognitive reframing. I target both the neurological and psychological aspects of trauma, and facilitate a holistic healing journey. My practice prioritizes creating a collaborative and empathetic space, where clients feel heard, validated, and empowered to navigate their healing process with self-awareness and newfound strength.

Santa Clara, California
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The Center for Men’s Excellence

San Diego, California

The Center for Men’s Excellence

Number of Therapists: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Our therapists work with men, couples and kids who seek to improve their quality of life with effective, evidence-based therapy modalities. Our clients take part in scientifically-supported psychotherapy treatments to effectively manage a variety of issues including anxiety, stress, depression and other life challenges. By learning to apply well-researched psychological techniques, clients are better able to improve their quality of life and experience lasting relief from their concerns.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

San Diego, California

Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

PsyD in Marriage and Family Therapy, Alliant University San Diego
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style emanates warmth, compassion and professionalism. My approach is collaborative, empowering, authentic and client-centered.

San Diego, California
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Stephen Jacob Coffey

San Francisco, California

Stephen Jacob Coffey

M.A. in Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi, I’m Stephen,

I work with men who have experienced sexual abuse and use an eclectic approach to help them get back to living life fully! If you are looking for a warm, consistent, engaged therapist, I’m here for you!

San Francisco, California
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John Bucher

San Diego, California

John Bucher

MSW, Virginia Commonwealth University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I know firsthand how hard it can be to set aside society’s expectations of traditional masculinity and admit that it might be time to ask for help. As men, we are conditioned to try and solve life’s many complexities on our own, but the truth is reaching out for help shows immense strength, not weakness.

Perhaps you found my profile because you are considering therapy, and for that I applaud you. You have taken the first step toward healing and that is an incredible start. Maybe you still feel uncomfortable with the idea of therapy or you found me by accident. In that case, I sincerely look forward to answering your questions about how this could help improve your life as well. Either way, I am glad that you are here.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Eric van der Voort

San Diego, California

Dr. Eric van der Voort

PsyD, American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex-positive, kink-affirming, and LGBTQ+ inclusive psychologist in San Diego, I work individually with men in their 20s-40s on issues like anxiety, depression, sexual concerns, relationship stress, substance use, and grief. My approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based, and clients find me to be active, compassionate, genuine, and nonjudgmental. I offer a safe environment to help unburden you from difficult thoughts, painful feelings, and unhelpful patterns, so that you can gain new coping skills, discover more helpful ways of thinking, and explore new ways of living a fulfilling life.

San Diego, California
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AJ Rich

Los Angeles, California

AJ Rich

MA in Psychology, California Southern University. Registered Associate Marriage & Family Therapist (AMFT) License #119970.
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many difficulties stem from our relationships, with both ourselves and others. My work with men is direct, yet warm, empathetic, & understanding. Together we navigate how to process the blocks obstructing your view & ability to move forward. We will explore life events from the past, as behavior patterns emerge in the here-and-now. As this self-awareness develops, clients can lead more joyful & connected lives. I cater sessions to each unique individual using real-life examples & the material you provide to deepen your own understanding of YOU. Complimentary consultation visit is available to all prospective clients. AJ is employed & supervised by Marina Chatterton, LCSW #26126

Los Angeles, California
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Nicholas Morvan

United States, California

Nicholas Morvan

MA in Marriage, Hope International University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hate psychobabble? Good, me too. I want to make therapy more accessible to those that think “therapy isn’t for them”

I help men build resiliency and develop purpose through honest conversations. Sometimes this means teaching tools and techniques, sometimes this means exploring painful memories, but almost always we are having authentic conversations  that respect your experiences and provide ways for you to grow.

United States, California
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Dr. Nicole Bryant

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Dr. Nicole Bryant

University of Denver, MSW and Grand Canyon University, EdD
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach when working with participants is to keep things low-key. The worst thing is an overly clinical therapist! I do my best to get on your level and to converse in the way you’d like to converse. I listen and then inform you of blind spots as needed. It helps clients remain comfortable yet always have that “aha” moment.

Specialties: Depression, anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, relationship conflict

Therapies: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), Mindfulness, Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused Therapy, Brief Therapy Interventions, Rapid Trauma Resolution

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Steve Oppenheimer

Palm Springs, California

Steve Oppenheimer

MA in Psychology, Chapman University and MBA, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I help Individuals & Couples to manage stress & to get unstuck from the life circumstances holding them back in life, career & relationships.

I have a diverse professional and personal background, which helps me to connect with others. In addition to my role as a licensed therapist, I bring to my practice over 30 years of business leadership experience.

I am goal oriented, solution focused and non-judgemental. Most important, I am easy to talk to.

Palm Springs, California
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Salvador Resendez

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Salvador Resendez

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach to therapy is to help couples and men foster a safe, caring therapeutic relationship to help them thrive. I bring compassion and empathy from my own recovery to support healing and growth. My style is active and I will collaborate with you to tap into your identity, strengths, values, and interests in our work together to help you achieve your goals.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Dr. Derek Novacek

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Derek Novacek

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Emory University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Derek Novacek (PSY #35671) offers expertise in evidence-based treatments for anxiety, depression, and interpersonal stressors. He practices a collaborative and strengths-based approach that integrates sociocultural factors as appropriate. Dr. Novacek sees patients at Therapy Lab but also works at the Los Angeles VA Clinic. In his free time, he enjoys playing tennis, trying new restaurants, and traveling.

Dr. Novacek is currently accepting new clients in person (Los Angeles, CA) and virtually (California and Michigan). To get started or learn more, send an email or book a free welcome call on the Therapy Lab website.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Troy Piwowarski

Oakland, California

Dr. Troy Piwowarski

PsyD, Michigan School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 17

I provide individual and group therapy for men in their 20s-50s who have done therapy before and are looking to go deeper.  As an individual therapist, I like to be actively involved and give feedback about what I’m noticing in the here-and-now.  This gives us a portal into understanding how you get tripped up and where you can lean into a fuller, deeper way of living. My men’s groups are long-term process groups that primarily focus on relationships between members.  Group is all about practicing direct, authentic contact and exploring your blocks to getting closer with others.

Oakland, California
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Aaron Kurtz

San Diego, California

Aaron Kurtz

MSW, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an LCSW practicing in San Diego, California. I have a focus on Men’s issue’s and Gaming Addiction. Many of the men I’ve worked with have struggled to find mental health support that is sympathetic to their situation and understands their experience. I focus on concepts of mindfulness and use mainly CBT, DBT, and Strengths Based.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Tony Madril

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Tony Madril

MSW, University of Denver and DSW, University of Pennsylvania
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide the following types of therapies to help you work through PTSD, Complex Trauma, anxiety, and depression: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), STAIR for complex trauma, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). I am a doctoral candidate at the University of Pennsylvania.

Los Angeles, California
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