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Jake Glassman

Carlsbad, California

Jake Glassman

MA MFT, University of San Diego
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe men face unique challenges and societal pressures that can often lead to emotional and psychological distress. I specialize in helping men explore a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, societal expectations, work related stress, masculinity norms, and substance abuse. Even though I’ve worked with a wide variety of clients, I have dedicated my career to helping men overcome these challenges and improve their mental health and overall well-being. In this day and age, it can be extremely isolating and frustrating to live as a man. Let me help guide you to living the life that you want.

Carlsbad, California
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Stephen Jacob Coffey

San Francisco, California

Stephen Jacob Coffey

M.A. in Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi, I’m Stephen,

I work with men who have experienced sexual abuse and use an eclectic approach to help them get back to living life fully! If you are looking for a warm, consistent, engaged therapist, I’m here for you!

San Francisco, California
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Monet Goldman

Santa Clara, California

Monet Goldman

M.S. in Counseling, California State University East Bay, Hayward
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Video game counseling is a novel approach that uses video games in counseling sessions to help closed-off clients express themselves. Video game counseling is a more immersive, artistic, and creative medium for clients to build skills and process their difficulties. I also help gamers stuck in their life to gain control over their video game habits and fulfill their other life ambitions.

Santa Clara, California
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Caleb Birkhoff

San Francisco, California

Caleb Birkhoff

MS in Counseling Psychology, Dominican University of California
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Psychotherapy focused on helping people manage issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Work Stress, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, and Relational Issues. Working with the whole person I strive to build a safe and trusting space for each individual in order to address the complexity of issues they may be facing. Remote therapy only.

San Francisco, California
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Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

San Diego, California

Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

PsyD in Marriage and Family Therapy, Alliant University San Diego
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style emanates warmth, compassion and professionalism. My approach is collaborative, empowering, authentic and client-centered.

San Diego, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS MICHIGAN

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS MICHIGAN
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Rebecca Bernstein

Los Angeles, California

Rebecca Bernstein

MSw, University of Denver
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My clinical lens is founded on the belief that clients are the true experts of their own lives, and the therapeutic relationship is a means towards exploration, empowerment, and actualization. My goal is to focus on you as a whole person. I am passionate about advocating for each client’s needs and supporting their wants, needs, and goals with compassion, empathy, and understanding. I integrate aspects of Brainspotting, ACT, CBT, narrative, psychodynamic, existential and mindfulness to individualize each client’s care.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Paul Fisher

San Diego, California

Dr. Paul Fisher

DMIn, San Francisco Theological Seminary
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an experienced therapist, LMFT#23779, of more than thirty years. I have my own practice in San Diego, CA, and also counsel online, and teach graduate behavioral science courses virtually. I work primarily with adults, individually or as couples. I’ve led numerous support groups for men, as well as working individually with alcohol and porn addiction. I’ve also assisted men with life transitions, loss, divorce, parenting, co-parenting, self-care, anger management, and domestic violence. I assist in helping men understand themselves and to be responsible and accountable for their choices and behaviors. Men also need an awareness of what a woman needs in a healthy relationship, and I work in this area as well.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Greg Cason

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Greg Cason

PhD, University of Houston
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Greg Cason is known for his warm and engaging approach to therapy. He is also a prolific writer and public speaker, with a particular focus on issues related to LGBTQ+ mental health and wellness. He is also an expert in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a diplomate of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy, as well as a licensed psychologist and clinical trainer with over 25 years of experience in the field of mental health. He has been featured on numerous television shows, including “The Today Show” and “The Doctors,” as a regular on “The Nancy Grace Show” and was the co-star of Bravo’s “LA Shrinks.” Dr. Greg currently maintains a private practice in Los Angeles, California, and is a clinical professor at UCLA.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Anthony Flynn

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Anthony Flynn

PhD (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Flynn uses evidence-based models like CBT and ACT, emphasizing relationship factors and exploring systemic influences on clients’ experiences. He helps clients develop skills to meet needs and respond to stressors, including structural impediments to wellness.

His experience spans ages 17-101, including college students, unhoused people, Veterans, and LGBTQ+ communities. Since 2018, he’s practiced in various settings, including outpatient psychotherapy, inpatient health psychology, and gender-affirming care.

Dr. Flynn researches health disparities, ethics, and psychotherapy effectiveness. He enjoys travel, nature, motorcycling, and family time. Currently working under Dr. Enrique Gracian’s supervision while completing licensure.

Los Angeles, California
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Nicholas Morvan

United States, California

Nicholas Morvan

MA in Marriage, Hope International University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hate psychobabble? Good, me too. I want to make therapy more accessible to those that think “therapy isn’t for them”

I help men build resiliency and develop purpose through honest conversations. Sometimes this means teaching tools and techniques, sometimes this means exploring painful memories, but almost always we are having authentic conversations  that respect your experiences and provide ways for you to grow.

United States, California
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Dr. Troy Piwowarski

Oakland, California

Dr. Troy Piwowarski

PsyD, Michigan School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 18

I provide individual and group therapy for men in their 20s-50s who have done therapy before and are looking to go deeper.  As an individual therapist, I like to be actively involved and give feedback about what I’m noticing in the here-and-now.  This gives us a portal into understanding how you get tripped up and where you can lean into a fuller, deeper way of living. My men’s groups are long-term process groups that primarily focus on relationships between members.  Group is all about practicing direct, authentic contact and exploring your blocks to getting closer with others.

Oakland, California
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Courtland McPherson

Alameda, California

Courtland McPherson

MSW, Rhode Island College School of Social Work
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You feel overwhelmed, stressed, unfulfilled. Maybe your relationship feels like it’s crashing and burning. You have lost motivation, direction, and a sense of purpose. You are not sure when it started, but you do not feel the same. You got here because you know something is off. But you do not want to stay this way. You want more out of friendships, coupledom, parenthood, work and life. You want to feel refreshed, energized, healthy and ready to tackle the days. You want to be back on track – like you again, but an expanded version. You want to be full of life. You want the fire back. You came to the right place. I help guys just like you get the fire back and get back to life!

Alameda, California
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Bryan Hartzell

Newport Beach, California

Bryan Hartzell

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Being a man never came with a manual. No sense of direction led to feeling lost, confused, stressed, not understood, and even angry. You just want to feel heard by someone who gets it, while taking impactful steps to create the life you’ve wanted for so long.

I coach and mentor you to create the masculinity you seek. I make therapy a space to workshop new perspectives, and forge newfound resiliency. I lead a path to find strength in compassion, kindness, and composure.

I know how hard it is, as a man, to admit you need help. Even more so to ask for it. I won’t judge or criticize. You can thrive with a men’s issues therapist who wants nothing more than to help you be all that you can, and more.

Newport Beach, California
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