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Dr. Paul Fisher

San Diego, California

Dr. Paul Fisher

DMIn, San Francisco Theological Seminary
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an experienced therapist, LMFT#23779, of more than thirty years. I have my own practice in San Diego, CA, and also counsel online, and teach graduate behavioral science courses virtually. I work primarily with adults, individually or as couples. I’ve led numerous support groups for men, as well as working individually with alcohol and porn addiction. I’ve also assisted men with life transitions, loss, divorce, parenting, co-parenting, self-care, anger management, and domestic violence. I assist in helping men understand themselves and to be responsible and accountable for their choices and behaviors. Men also need an awareness of what a woman needs in a healthy relationship, and I work in this area as well.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

San Diego, California

Dr. Jesse Zlotnik

PsyD, The California School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide support for the unique challenges of men dealing with stage of life issues, marital problems, divorce, parenting and career transitions. My approach is solution focused and applies cognitive behavioral and person-centered interventions. Please contact me for a free 15-minute consultation.

San Diego, California
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Rebecca Bernstein

Los Angeles, California

Rebecca Bernstein

MSw, University of Denver
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My clinical lens is founded on the belief that clients are the true experts of their own lives, and the therapeutic relationship is a means towards exploration, empowerment, and actualization. My goal is to focus on you as a whole person. I am passionate about advocating for each client’s needs and supporting their wants, needs, and goals with compassion, empathy, and understanding. I integrate aspects of Brainspotting, ACT, CBT, narrative, psychodynamic, existential and mindfulness to individualize each client’s care.

Los Angeles, California
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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Lisa Larsen

Lancaster, California

Lisa Larsen

PsyD/John F. Kennedy University
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an LGBTQ-affirming grief and trauma therapist who helps individual adults, teens and couples feel calm, safe and connected. I use EMDR, hypnosis, SFBT and EFT, through virtual therapy.

Lancaster, California
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Dr. Troy Piwowarski

Oakland, California

Dr. Troy Piwowarski

PsyD, Michigan School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 18

I provide individual and group therapy for men in their 20s-50s who have done therapy before and are looking to go deeper.  As an individual therapist, I like to be actively involved and give feedback about what I’m noticing in the here-and-now.  This gives us a portal into understanding how you get tripped up and where you can lean into a fuller, deeper way of living. My men’s groups are long-term process groups that primarily focus on relationships between members.  Group is all about practicing direct, authentic contact and exploring your blocks to getting closer with others.

Oakland, California
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Tomiko D. Mackey

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Tomiko D. Mackey

MSW, California State University Long Beach
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My integrative approach to therapy is tailored to your unique and specific needs. This therapeutic style helps you explore core beliefs about yourself and facilitates growth towards inner strength and resilience. Through empathy, warmth and positive self-regard, I create space for you to believe and trust in yourself.

I have more than 20 years experience working with those who have experienced trauma, depression and anxiety. I use a combination of evidence-based therapies which include: cognitive behavioral therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and ego state therapy. I look forward to working with you on your healing journey!

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Leann Ravenel

Berkeley, California

Leann Ravenel

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lesley University
Years in practice: 22
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have been a mental health provider for nearly 20 years. I absolutely love what I do! I was trained psychoanalytically but also use a humanistic, client-centered and eclectic approach to therapy. I am a warm, caring and engaging therapist. I enjoy working with male clients and have had tremendous success in treating men with depression, anxiety and relationship issues.

Thank you.

Berkeley, California
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Bruce Hearn

San Francisco, California

Bruce Hearn

MA in Counseling, Wright Institute, Berkeley, CA
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who struggle in relationships. You might have lost your self-confidence, or are feeling down, having encountered obstacles that seem too much to deal with. I’ll help you to draw on and develop your own strengths so that you can get moving again.

San Francisco, California
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Robyn Shapiro

San Diego, California

Robyn Shapiro

MA, Touro University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

The stress of day-to-day life can become overwhelming and lead us to feel anxious, depressed and disconnected from ourselves and our closest relationships. It can be exhausting trying to manage work, family, friendships; only to find that we’ve neglected ourselves and our own needs.

Let’s work together. You’ll be in a safe, non-judgmental space, getting the support you need and deserve. We’ll explore new ideas and identify actionable approaches to help you better manage stress, improve your mood, self-esteem, enhance your communication skills, and build self-confidence. You’ll discover a newfound sense of empowerment, purpose, and joy.

Ready to feel happier, experience greater intimacy and connection in your life? Please schedule a free consultation.

San Diego, California
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AJ Rich

Los Angeles, California

AJ Rich

MA in Psychology, California Southern University. Registered Associate Marriage & Family Therapist (AMFT) License #119970.
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many difficulties stem from our relationships, with both ourselves and others. My work with men is direct, yet warm, empathetic, & understanding. Together we navigate how to process the blocks obstructing your view & ability to move forward. We will explore life events from the past, as behavior patterns emerge in the here-and-now. As this self-awareness develops, clients can lead more joyful & connected lives. I cater sessions to each unique individual using real-life examples & the material you provide to deepen your own understanding of YOU. Complimentary consultation visit is available to all prospective clients. AJ is employed & supervised by Marina Chatterton, LCSW #26126

Los Angeles, California
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Niku (Nick) Shah

Oakland, California

Niku (Nick) Shah

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice can help you take stock of childhood messages you learned around toxic masculinity and heteronormativity so you can truly let go of what is no longer serving a purpose in your life. Depression, suicidal thoughts, self harming, addiction and going through tough periods in your relationships can be challenging. You don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can help you heal old relational trauma that is causing you distress, so you can be your best self at work, with friends and loved ones and in your intimate relationships.

Oakland, California
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Raissa Alvero

Berkeley, California

Raissa Alvero

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide integrative psychodynamic therapy to adult men of immigrant parents navigating life transitions, family of origin stress and relationship struggles. Many people I work with struggle with trust, loneliness and emotional intimacy or with anxiety, depression or unresolved trauma.

I believe therapy takes courage and humility to confront what is uncomfortable, allowing us to break free from patterns that keep us stuck and move toward greater freedom. As your therapist, I see myself as a guide, offering the right balance of support, perspective and challenge to foster meaningful change and growth.

Berkeley, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS MICHIGAN

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS MICHIGAN
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Daniel Dryden

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Daniel Dryden

MA Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Like water carving rocks, we are shaped by our surroundings and where we come from. I grew up in rural Alaska surrounded by a vast expanse of towering mountains and large glacial rivers. I worked for many years as a wilderness guide, experiential educator and wilderness therapist. Dramatic seasonal changes in light, temperature, and landscape taught me that stillness exists within the extremes. I work from a perspective that combines modern neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, internal family systems, eco therapy and eastern mysticism. Among other things I am a father, carpenter, adventurer and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapist (KAP). Please feel free to reach out for a free 15 min consultation through my website.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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