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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Erik Anderson

Los Angeles, California

Erik Anderson

MS in Counseling, California State University, Long Beach
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my practice as a therapist I use the research on what works to help my clients get the outcomes they want: better relationships, managed anxiety, less depression and more control over life. I do not limit our work into any single modality but blend a variety of techniques to tailor my approach for each individual. I draw influence from cognitive behavioral, humanistic and dynamic psychotherapy. Therapy is a place to develop and apply philosophy to get to a different place than we are able to get on our own. I’m excited to join you!

Los Angeles, California
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Sara Okman

San Francisco, California

Sara Okman

Master's in Family Therapy, Thomas Jefferson University
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex therapist, couples counselor and psychotherapist, I help clients foster better relationships with themselves and their partners. I specialize in helping to negotiate desire discrepancy, low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships, including polyamory, consensual non-monogamy & infidelity.
Using practical, easy to implement tools, we will address and rectify what needs to shift, while emphasizing and solidifying what’s already working well. Together we will do the kind of work that produces positive, lasting change.

San Francisco, California
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George Fuentes

Newport Beach, California

George Fuentes

MA in Clinical Psychology, Azusa Pacific University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Don’t wait to lose everything, before you realize you’ll do anything to get it back… Reach out to reduce chaos, feelings of loneliness & overwhelming frustrations.

Many men struggle to maintain their desired life because of emotional dysregulation, relationship strains, technological distractions, addictive behaviors (alcohol, weed, porn, masturbation & cute girls) & not prioritizing physical health, food, sleep, faith, & work-life balance.

Feelings of being stuck leak into your romantic relationship, interactions with your kids, a disconnect w/ friends, & leads to a loss of identity. “Trying harder” hasn’t been working. Don’t let anxiety, stress, frustrations, & hopelessness own you.

Looking forward to connecting!

Newport Beach, California
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Adam Kaufman

San Francisco, California

Adam Kaufman

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I HELP MILLENNIAL AND GEN X PROFESSIONALS CONSCIOUSLY GET WHAT THEY WANT (IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS). Life is overwhelming. Between work, relationships, and technology calling for your attention at every moment, it’s extremely difficult to remain calm and grounded. We can lose our sense of purpose and passion.

Unlike other therapists who merely sit and listen, I take an active and engaged approach. You may find yourself in a guided meditation or a role-play exercise. There may be optional homework assignments. We’ll tune into exactly what you need. I’m here to support you to find your unique, confident voice.

San Francisco, California
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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Corinne Eisenhardt

Los Angeles, California

Corinne Eisenhardt

MA in Counseling, Eastern Michigan University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, lack of self-worth, or self-doubt, I help people uncover the root causes of their issues and find a way out.
As a therapist, I actively participate in therapy conversations, providing feedback, teaching you skills, and helping you work through problems or unhealthy patterns. I balance being supportive with also challenging my clients in ways that help them grow.

Los Angeles, California
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Daniel Dryden

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Daniel Dryden

MA Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Like water carving rocks, we are shaped by our surroundings and where we come from. I grew up in rural Alaska surrounded by a vast expanse of towering mountains and large glacial rivers. I worked for many years as a wilderness guide, experiential educator and wilderness therapist. Dramatic seasonal changes in light, temperature, and landscape taught me that stillness exists within the extremes. I work from a perspective that combines modern neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, internal family systems, eco therapy and eastern mysticism. Among other things I am a father, carpenter, adventurer and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapist (KAP). Please feel free to reach out for a free 15 min consultation through my website.

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Fabrice Paracuellos

Laguna Beach, California

Fabrice Paracuellos

MA, Pacifica Graduate Institute and MS, Arts et Métiers ParisTech and MBA, HEC Paris.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I view therapy as being invited to explore ourselves in a welcoming way with someone with kindness who shares knowledge about how we function as humans, so we can gain an understanding for how we have functioned, what we need to thrive, and then thrive. This is self-worth and mastery. And with it comes our being more loving toward toward others and toward ourselves.

Laguna Beach, California
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Jacob Sims

Oakland, California

Jacob Sims

MA, Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Depression. Anxiety. Low self-esteem. Relational issues. These are common issues that people face when it comes to mental health challenges, which are enough to make life difficult. Chances are your relationships and most importantly your relationship with yourself have been greatly impacted by these factors. There’s this sense that something has to change, but you might not know where to begin. Together we embark on this journey of uncovering just how you got here and discovering where you want to go.

Oakland, California
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Dr. Anthony Flynn

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Anthony Flynn

PhD (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Flynn uses evidence-based models like CBT and ACT, emphasizing relationship factors and exploring systemic influences on clients’ experiences. He helps clients develop skills to meet needs and respond to stressors, including structural impediments to wellness.

His experience spans ages 17-101, including college students, unhoused people, Veterans, and LGBTQ+ communities. Since 2018, he’s practiced in various settings, including outpatient psychotherapy, inpatient health psychology, and gender-affirming care.

Dr. Flynn researches health disparities, ethics, and psychotherapy effectiveness. He enjoys travel, nature, motorcycling, and family time. Currently working under Dr. Enrique Gracian’s supervision while completing licensure.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Greg Cason

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Greg Cason

PhD, University of Houston
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Greg Cason is known for his warm and engaging approach to therapy. He is also a prolific writer and public speaker, with a particular focus on issues related to LGBTQ+ mental health and wellness. He is also an expert in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a diplomate of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy, as well as a licensed psychologist and clinical trainer with over 25 years of experience in the field of mental health. He has been featured on numerous television shows, including “The Today Show” and “The Doctors,” as a regular on “The Nancy Grace Show” and was the co-star of Bravo’s “LA Shrinks.” Dr. Greg currently maintains a private practice in Los Angeles, California, and is a clinical professor at UCLA.

Los Angeles, California
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Aaron Kurtz

San Diego, California

Aaron Kurtz

MSW, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an LCSW practicing in San Diego, California. I have a focus on Men’s issue’s and Gaming Addiction. Many of the men I’ve worked with have struggled to find mental health support that is sympathetic to their situation and understands their experience. I focus on concepts of mindfulness and use mainly CBT, DBT, and Strengths Based.

San Diego, California
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Dr. Eric van der Voort

San Diego, California

Dr. Eric van der Voort

PsyD, American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex-positive, kink-affirming, and LGBTQ+ inclusive psychologist in San Diego, I work individually with men in their 20s-40s on issues like anxiety, depression, sexual concerns, relationship stress, substance use, and grief. My approach to therapy is collaborative, empowering, and evidence-based, and clients find me to be active, compassionate, genuine, and nonjudgmental. I offer a safe environment to help unburden you from difficult thoughts, painful feelings, and unhelpful patterns, so that you can gain new coping skills, discover more helpful ways of thinking, and explore new ways of living a fulfilling life.

San Diego, California
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Raissa Alvero

Berkeley, California

Raissa Alvero

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide integrative psychodynamic therapy to adult men of immigrant parents navigating life transitions, family of origin stress and relationship struggles. Many people I work with struggle with trust, loneliness and emotional intimacy or with anxiety, depression or unresolved trauma.

I believe therapy takes courage and humility to confront what is uncomfortable, allowing us to break free from patterns that keep us stuck and move toward greater freedom. As your therapist, I see myself as a guide, offering the right balance of support, perspective and challenge to foster meaningful change and growth.

Berkeley, California
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