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Connor Moss

Oakland, California

Connor Moss

MA, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer client centered, humanistic, and solutions oriented therapy for individuals and couples in Oakland, CA and online anywhere in California. I love helping people move through difficult patterns and emotions in their lives to emerge on the other side stronger and more engaged in their lives.

Oakland, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Tyler Goulet

Alameda, California

Tyler Goulet

MA Counseling Psychology, Golden Gate University, San Francisco
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a male mental health therapist for men. I help men with anxiety, depression, anger, relationships, communication, career, and work stress. I am described by my clients as casual, engaging, and practical.

I help men learn how to have deep emotional relationships with others by modeling and building authentic relationships based on relatability, trust, and vulnerability.

I match the preferences of my clients using a range of structured and unstructured approaches including: relational therapy, cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), solutions focused therapy, strengths based therapy, and mindfulness.

I provide online individual mental health therapy to men in California. I am based in Alameda, CA.

Alameda, California
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Karen Baker

Los Angeles, California

Karen Baker

MA in Somatic Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with individuals, couples and families to heal the obstacles to connection, with themselves and eachother, in order to live the fullest expression of their lives.

My therapeutic approach draws upon body-basded therapies and wisdom traditions as well as depth psychology. Together we will explore your life through five distinct elements: mind, body, spirit, community, and environment, with attention to both your suffering and your goals.

I am available and excited to begin helping you. Are you ready?

Los Angeles, California
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Matt Seastrom

Newport Beach, California

Matt Seastrom

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My focus is on helping men navigate the unique challenges they face whether it’s in their teenage years or as they approach middle age. My services are designed to support men by providing them with a space to be open and honest about their thoughts and to deal with their men’s issues. Founded with a passion for mental wellness, I have been dedicated to making a positive impact in the lives of individuals. I am driven by the belief that everyone deserves the opportunity to thrive, and I am honored to work alongside you on this transformative path. I offer a range of resources and strategies to enhance your well-being.

Newport Beach, California
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Dr. Daniel Singley

San Diego, California

Dr. Daniel Singley

Ph.D., University of Maryland
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

With over 20 years of experience practicing and researching psychotherapy interventions, Dr. Singley specializes in the treatment of anxiety, stress, and depression using evidence-based therapy modalities including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), exposure therapy, as well as acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). He also specializes in men’s issues with a particular emphasis on parenthood.

San Diego, California
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Monet Goldman

Santa Clara, California

Monet Goldman

M.S. in Counseling, California State University East Bay, Hayward
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Video game counseling is a novel approach that uses video games in counseling sessions to help closed-off clients express themselves. Video game counseling is a more immersive, artistic, and creative medium for clients to build skills and process their difficulties. I also help gamers stuck in their life to gain control over their video game habits and fulfill their other life ambitions.

Santa Clara, California
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Dr. Philip Lance

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Philip Lance

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with a specialty in psychoanalysis and LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy. I can be helpful with dating, relationships, marriage issues, work, career changes, intimacy, and sexuality. I work with many academics, students, writers, filmmakers, and healthcare professionals.

Los Angeles, California
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Steve Oppenheimer

Palm Springs, California

Steve Oppenheimer

MA in Psychology, Chapman University and MBA, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I help Individuals & Couples to manage stress & to get unstuck from the life circumstances holding them back in life, career & relationships.

I have a diverse professional and personal background, which helps me to connect with others. In addition to my role as a licensed therapist, I bring to my practice over 30 years of business leadership experience.

I am goal oriented, solution focused and non-judgemental. Most important, I am easy to talk to.

Palm Springs, California
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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Bruce Hearn

San Francisco, California

Bruce Hearn

MA in Counseling, Wright Institute, Berkeley, CA
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who struggle in relationships. You might have lost your self-confidence, or are feeling down, having encountered obstacles that seem too much to deal with. I’ll help you to draw on and develop your own strengths so that you can get moving again.

San Francisco, California
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Jake Glassman

Carlsbad, California

Jake Glassman

MA MFT, University of San Diego
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe men face unique challenges and societal pressures that can often lead to emotional and psychological distress. I specialize in helping men explore a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, societal expectations, work related stress, masculinity norms, and substance abuse. Even though I’ve worked with a wide variety of clients, I have dedicated my career to helping men overcome these challenges and improve their mental health and overall well-being. In this day and age, it can be extremely isolating and frustrating to live as a man. Let me help guide you to living the life that you want.

Carlsbad, California
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Corinne Eisenhardt

Los Angeles, California

Corinne Eisenhardt

MA in Counseling, Eastern Michigan University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, lack of self-worth, or self-doubt, I help people uncover the root causes of their issues and find a way out.
As a therapist, I actively participate in therapy conversations, providing feedback, teaching you skills, and helping you work through problems or unhealthy patterns. I balance being supportive with also challenging my clients in ways that help them grow.

Los Angeles, California
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Adam Kaufman

San Francisco, California

Adam Kaufman

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I HELP MILLENNIAL AND GEN X PROFESSIONALS CONSCIOUSLY GET WHAT THEY WANT (IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS). Life is overwhelming. Between work, relationships, and technology calling for your attention at every moment, it’s extremely difficult to remain calm and grounded. We can lose our sense of purpose and passion.

Unlike other therapists who merely sit and listen, I take an active and engaged approach. You may find yourself in a guided meditation or a role-play exercise. There may be optional homework assignments. We’ll tune into exactly what you need. I’m here to support you to find your unique, confident voice.

San Francisco, California
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Aaron Kurtz

San Diego, California

Aaron Kurtz

MSW, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an LCSW practicing in San Diego, California. I have a focus on Men’s issue’s and Gaming Addiction. Many of the men I’ve worked with have struggled to find mental health support that is sympathetic to their situation and understands their experience. I focus on concepts of mindfulness and use mainly CBT, DBT, and Strengths Based.

San Diego, California
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