How to assess suicide risk
Know the factors that play a part in whether thoughts of suicide may turn into action.
Know the factors that play a part in whether thoughts of suicide may turn into action.
“There may have been signs I didn’t notice. I didn’t know how serious his thoughts had become.”
Family, friends, co-workers, and other peers can play a valuable role in reducing a man’s risk for suicide.[1-3]
When supporting a guy who is experiencing mental health difficulties, understanding the basics of assessing suicide risk could help save his life.
Assessing suicide risk is not an objective process (in other words, there is not a specific “technique” or standardized protocol to risk assessment) or an “exact science” (meaning that suicide risk assessment is not 100% accurate). Nevertheless, awareness of what can contribute to heightening someone’s risk for suicide gives us an opportunity to intervene before it may be too late.
Keep in mind that many of the factors that can contribute to suicide risk can fluctuate over time and are different for every guy, so accurately identifying a guy’s risk of suicide is not always straightforward.[4-6]
These generally include his personal background, health, family history, social relationships, etc. that may make him more vulnerable to thoughts of suicide and/or acting on such thoughts. Specific factors include:
Certain behaviours may put a guy at an increased risk for suicide. Keep an eye out for:
While some men may feel comfortable being open about their feelings, including feeling suicidal, others may only provide subtle hints. Indeed, it’s fairly common for men to avoid expressing suicidal ideation in a clear and direct way.
Because a desire for suicide or an escape from life is not always obviously expressed, we need to be aware of the things he says, writes about, posts to social media, etc. in order to gauge his desire for suicide.
His desire can be actively or passively expressed [4] and may sound like the following:
Whether his desire for suicide is expressed more actively or passively, such comments signal that he’s feeling hopeless or like a burden, and need to be taken seriously.
Many men experience challenging periods in their lives where they may have passive or active suicidal thoughts. However, once they begin to display intentions or make plans to act on these thoughts, it becomes crucial to intervene to ensure their safety.[7]
If a guy is intending to act on his suicidal thoughts, some things you may notice him doing include:
Additionally, a key aspect of a strong intent is him having thought out or prepared a suicide plan. While a guy may not mention his plan to avoid worrying you, if he has voiced suicidal thoughts, it’s crucial that you ask him directly if he has a suicide plan in place.
You may ask him about the following:
The more concrete and detailed his plan is, the higher his risk is for acting on the plan.
For guidance on how to have a conversation about suicide, see the Start a Conversation portion of our Gauging and Responding to Risk page.
This refers to whether or not a man physically has access to or can easily gain access to a method for dying by suicide and, if he has a suicide plan, the specific means that he’s mentioned. Things to keep an eye out for:
If you’re worried about a guy and he currently has a means for suicide in his home, express your concern to him and ask if you can remove or prevent access to these items by offering to keep them at your place, or getting him to put them somewhere that makes it harder for him to access them (e.g., a safe or a roommate’s room).
By removing, reducing, preventing, or impeding his access to lethal means, we’re creating an inconvenient roadblock in his plan that may reduce his desire or capability to follow through.
The factors described above can contribute to an increase in someone’s risk for suicide.
However, there are also factors that can help reduce risk. Protective factors are aspects of a man’s life that can reduce his risk for suicide.[5-6] Such factors include:
Protective factors often serve as reasons for living and by recognizing these, we can remind him of his strengths, admirable qualities, and valuable aspects of his life while empathizing with his hardships and supporting him through those hardships.
Generally speaking, the greater the number of risk factors the person has, and the fewer protective factors he has, the higher his risk is for suicide.
Note that suicide risk can rise and fall, so check in on the guy you’re concerned about and keep an eye out for any changes to the factors we’ve described above.
Remember, though, that just because a guy is low risk doesn’t mean he’s at no risk, so we still need to offer support as best as we can.
On the other end of the spectrum, just because a guy may currently be high risk doesn’t mean he’ll always be high risk. The danger for suicide often follows a rising then subsiding pattern; it’s important that we support him through the worst of these times.
By knowing which factors in his life may be affecting him the most, we can help him come up with risk-specific coping skills, create a plan to tackle the specific areas in his life, and help him get appropriate professional support.[8-10]
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Note: Most importantly, when supporting a man who is struggling with depression/suicidality, remember to also prioritize your own wellbeing. Taking care of your own mental health is key to being an impactful supporter in a manageable way.
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